Board Thread:Questions and Answers/@comment-24884876-20141109115144/@comment-25047329-20141109152226

Shipping doesn't concern me much, but I have to admit; I'm surprised how much hate Bai has been getting. All of Ben's other love interests have had the benefit of getting more screen time and development with Ben. Kai hasn't yet because she was one of the last introduced. Their relationship isn't bad, just underdeveloped.

I REALLY don't care who Ben ends up with, but logically I think a more tom boyish and stern girl like Kai would work better for Ben than Julie or Ester. Julie and Ester are "too nice for their own good" and had to put up with a lot of Ben's crap because of it. Kai doesn't put up with Ben's stupidity and I think in the long run he'll have a more healthy relationship with someone who isn't afraid smack him upside the head when he needs it. Ben's just the kind of fellow who needs "tough love" occasionally and I think girls that are overly nice just wouldn't work out that well.

Besides, I think Julie and Ester deserve better to be frank about it. :/

I love Ben and all, but dude's not a great boyfriend. I always took it that Ben and Kai wouldn't have a serious relationship until sometime later and DJW's post seems to support this. Not even Kai is that interested in him NOW, Ben would probably have to grow up a little first. Kai too for that matter. Their relationship just isn't meant to be taken seriously at this point in time.