Thread:Blaziken rjcf/@comment-24546423-20150413095914/@comment-34326521-20150414095216

The rudeness was in ordering me to fix your issue. When you approach someone - anyone - to whom you're asking for a favor, keep in mind that you're asking them - not telling them - to help you, and that they can say "no". Ordering someone to do something for you makes it seem as if they owe you something; as if you're doing them a favor, and not the other way around.

Here's a respectful scenario where you ask someone for something:

Person A: "Hey, would you mind doing this for me?"

Person B: "Sure, no problem."

Now here's what you did:

Person A: "Go do this for me right now!"

Person B: "No."

See the difference?

You can find endless threads on my wall where people respectfully asked me for something, and I responded as quickly as possible and helped them with whatever issue(s) they had.